Dressing for Success: The Do's and Don'ts of Dressing for a Date with Swingers

What kind of swinger wear should you wear when you are going to date Swingers? What do they like and dislike? These are the most common questions that new swinger dating couples ask when they decide to start their own swinger club adventure or private play date with others. But if you are not very experienced in this realm, you may be worried that the wrong choice of your outfit can spoil the whole evening. Well, it's time to stop worrying because I'm going to tell you what to wear when you are going to date Swingers, regardless of your age and looks!



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The Outfit


Keep it simple. When dressing to meet swingers, it’s best to look your best. This doesn’t mean you need to dress like a slob every other day, then go all out when you want to play. Your swinger wear should reflect how you usually dress – just clean up a bit, put on some nice cologne, shave (or let him grow), and shine those shoes! You don’t have to get dressed up in a suit and tie or anything fancy, but do try to avoid wearing baggy clothes or athletic gear. You can always show off that hot bod if they ask later on! If you are worried about not having enough clothes or not knowing what will work well as swinger wear, consider Swingers Boutique which sells lifestyle clothing.


Shoes & Accessories


Let’s take some time to consider shoes for swingers. Women have it easy when it comes to dressing in hotwife clothing, right? Just put on those stilettos, or maybe a few sexy gold chains, and you’re ready to go. But what about guys? If you’re going out on an evening with swingers in tow, try to pick something classy that will set you apart from others at their party. For example, instead of wearing your favorite pair of sneakers or sandals, why not wear a nice pair of dress shoes? Shoes are usually one thing that we can easily change up without changing our whole outfit.



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When choosing shoes for swingers nights out, think classic—and keep it simple! Try a nice pair of black dress shoes paired with jeans and a button-up shirt (not tucked in). These types of outfits tend to look best on men since they help highlight masculine features while minimizing body parts like arms and legs (unless you're trying to attract another guy into bed). Keep accessories to a minimum by only wearing your wedding ring (if married) or watch—but avoid any other swinger jewelry that might be seen as feminine.


Jewelry, Cosmetics, Tattoos & Piercings


You’re going to be spending some intimate time with your new friends so you’ll want to be comfortable but put together. Maybe even show off that inner edge, so pack your swinger tattoo up for your date night! Just make sure it doesn’t get too dark or too out there, particularly if you have kids at home. Here are a few things to consider before taking that step.

  1. Swinger tattoos should reflect who you are as an individual and what you believe in.

  2. If you have any type of visible tattoos, take extra care when getting ready for your evening on the town.

  3. Stay away from designs that might offend others—it’s never fun to look over at someone else’s date while in mid-flirt only to see them staring back at a tat they find distasteful.


Start With A Good Foundation


If you’re going to be spending time in a swinger’s club, chances are there will be more than one person watching. Before you get ready, make sure you have what it takes to turn heads—you need to look great before you put on those sexy hotwife shoes. Start by choosing lingerie that complements your body type. Depending on how risqué you want to get, nude is always a good start, or lingerie with some lace and ruffles could do wonders. Remember, less is more when you're starting out; if things go well, then you can always ramp up your wardrobe later.

As far as what to wear underneath, we recommend wearing something comfortable but not too baggy so that everything stays where it should be. For example, our nylon thigh-high stockings are comfortable enough to wear all night long without worrying about them falling down! Next up is what to wear overtop; don't feel like you have to go full-on glamour girl from head to toe; keep it simple at first and just focus on what really matters: your breasts!